Last Tuesday, I sat in class with a group of seven school counseling interns, all looking to complete their graduate requirements by December.
One of my classmates said, “Well, you know there are no jobs. We’re not going to be able to find school counseling jobs in this economy.”
I was sitting next to her, but said nothing. The professor offered a response that I can’t remember. I only remember thinking, “Why would you think that?”
Why would you think that you can’t find a job?
Now, I know it’s important to be realistic and honest with yourself, but such a statement is a recipe for failure and disaster, one that could never serve the speaker or anyone else for that matter.
Instead of thinking you won’t, think when. Think: How many nos will I hear before my yes, because a yes will surely come!
I should have told her that if she wants prosperity, a new job, or abundance, then focus on that, focus on what you want, not on what you don’t want.
Instead of saying, “There are no jobs. I’m not going to be able to find a school counseling job in this economy,” I have begun to visualize my future office, my school, and the programs I would be interested in offering. I also know that I want to be in a diverse environment, one where I can thrive and grow.
But I’m not just visualizing and dreaming. I’ve also looked at the market in other areas around the country, with networking becoming a huge priority. Joining the Michigan School Counseling Association and attending a number of workshops and conferences in the area have provided invaluable connections, information, and resources.
Yes, a poor economy is a fact that I have to work with, but I don’t believe in giving myself an excuse or a way out of creating the life I want.
What are your thoughts?
Danielle Says: